Memories
Emily,

i miss you so much! you are still
suppose to be down here with us !
everyone loves you so much and
will never forget you!- jill<3
Dear Emily,
One of my favorite memories was when you spent
the night at our house and we went to the grocery
store shopping for junk food that Mom would not
let you eat. We bought Hershey's Shrek syrup
that was green and we made chocolate milk. It
turned green but tasted chocolate. I miss you
Emily. Your smile, your beautiful hair and your
laugh.
I can still hear your voice.
We love you bunches,
Lizzie, Tom and Thomas.
Email Memories of Emily
Dear Emily,
Hi it's me Rebecca.
I Miss you so much!!
I know you can't respond to
this letter but if you can,
please send Bri and I one!
I MISS YOU!
but, I love you!!  

Love , Rebecca K.
Emily was the nicest person,
She helped everyone. I enjoyed
seeing her flaming hair, and her
perfect smile. She was the light in
the class. She was the best.
From: Maria G.
Emily, I miss you, You made all of my
days when I was blue become

bright yellow. You were my light.

From: Maria G.
If you saw me at school you probably
wouldn't remember me.
I remember you!
Every morning you'd walk in with a
shimmering smile. I was in first grade
with you. Even though I only knew you
for one year, I still know you are
watching over me. You probably are
watching over us from heaven with the
same smile you had every morning.
We miss you Emily!
Love, Shannon E.
My favorite memory of Emily is her
birthday party at Odyssey Fun World. We
all ran around, playing games, and winning
tickets. I has a lot of fun. I won a lanyard,
that had the words "Girl Power" on it. I
would like to have a picture of you to put in
that lanyard, but I didn't come to the wake. I
did come to the funeral though. You were a
nice friend  to all of us.

Love, Dayana Y.
March 24, 2007

The last time I saw Emily was the 2004 Bobcat's Cheer Celebration. Just weeks before the fatal crash. She was very happy and her smile could
make everyone smile no matter the situation. She was a great "flyer" and everyone loves her. The Bobcat Family all wish she was with us still. Her
love and dedication is always going to be with me. I still remember a little Bobcat Cheerleader the same age as Emily were playing in the Andrew
High School's main gym before the cheer celebration. She was so happy and all she could talk about is the trip with her grandparents, she told
everyone. I know for sure if there was any force in the universe to bring her back we would all do it. We love Emily and hope she is still cheering and
doing volleyball with God and the other children up there. I still think Emily is with us. My kids on my cheer team each year say that Emily is there and
performing her old routine that she loved so much. They said that at the end of each routine that she would yell " GO BOBCATS".

But the most scariest thing was that when it was time for the raffle, her name was pulled out, it read...
"
Name: Emily Nylec. Don't forget to remember me. I will always be a cheerleader.  Age: 9    Date: October 24, 2004."
(The day of her last cheer celebration and her father's birthday.) Now every year we are starting a tradition and we are going to  have a "Remember
Emily" moment where friends of her friends can come up and tell stories about her. We love Emily and I do believe she came back as another
cheerleader because there is a girl now that looks like her, and is a "Flyer"! She also plays volleyball and attends Noonan Academy. It is very scary,
but we are happy. Emily if you can read this we want you to keep coming to our cheer celebrations.

WE LOVE YOU EMILY,
Your Bobcat's Cheerleading Family
My name is Jessica, an acquaintence with Emily Nylec
The story of Emily Nylec got to all of us. Made us all sad, tore our hearts to pieces. Well, like her cousin Jill, I knew
Emily Nylec. She was one of my friends from school. We weren't best friends, just normal people who casually knew
each other. I remember walking into school, and my teacher was all depressed. Me, a simple 3rd grader, then
understood why. She had announced that Emily Nylec, someone I wish I would've gotten a chance to know, had died
in a deadly plane crash. We were a grade apart, but I do remember talking, and everything. I may remember, if I
think hard enough, hearing a rumor of her triplets. I went to her funeral not long after she died. I remember walking
up to the casket, and burst out in tears, and whispering "Why? Why her? I can't do this!" and getting up, and walking
away. I wished I would've been stronger. I wish she were still here. I wish I had a chance to say good-bye, along with
many others who I'm sure have that same wish. So, I think we shall all say a prayer for Emily Nylec.

Emily, if you're there, we know that life isn't always so great. You were strong. You were good. You were an
inspiration. You were beautiful. You were pure. You were hopeful. But you still are all of those things. We miss you,
love you, and will always cherish the memories.

In your name we pray,
Your loved ones.

I remember when Emily would call me when she was in
Louisiana and we would just talk the whole time. My mom would answer
the phone and it would say on caller id
Louisiana call. My mom would say it was Emily, and would
give me the phone. Pretty much every time she went to Louisiana she
would always call me and we would just
talk on the phone for a really long time!  Everybody in the
school misses you Emily!   We all do!  
   
Love your best friend      
Nicole
Emily was a Pisces. I think this description
describes
her well...The young Pisces are adventurous,
ambitious, impulsive, enthusiastic and full of
energy. The Pisces are pioneers both in thought
and action, very open to new ideas and a lover
of freedom. These people possess a curiously
natural understanding, which they  do not obtain
from books or study. They easily acquire, or rather
absorb, knowledge.
Noonan Academy, with my friend and I said
She told me that Emily died. I asked what her
last name was. It sounded so familiar. When I
got home I looked for her in my old yearbook.
Well for the past week, before I found out
about Emily, I have been singing songs like
"I will remember you" and "I miss you".
Its really weird.
-Kathleen

(Kathleen, this is Emily's mom. It's not weird.
Emily was communicating with you. I think I know who
you are. If I am right, you and a boy named Michael
were the two kids in preschool that Emily ALWAYS
talked about !!!  She considered you and Michael
her
best friends in preschool. Remember that.)
I still have the "FORTUNE TELLER"
paper game with her handwriting.
and school picture the year Emily
died. Emily, I wish and hope
you can read this message.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH !!!
I miss you..you were my neighbor
and BFF!!!      I can't live and suffer
without you. I cry every night
b/c I think of you !!!
I can't wait to see you in HEAVEN !
LOVE YAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)

from our neighbor Amanda
in Mokena
One day my daughter died.

But she lived for
9 years and 8 months exactly.

Just the other day (November 2008), I came across a picture of Emily leaning into a bush with a butterfly
on it. She was sleeping overnight at Meaghan M's house and they went to Brookfield Zoo and that is
where the picture was taken, in 2002. It's a precious picture to me because butterflies are
a symbol of children that have died and here is Emily, two years before her death, posing with her
future self! I decided to send the picture to Meaghan. Well a few days later...

Meaghan was very smart and got double promoted and so while Emily's class are 8th graders
now (2008),  Meaghan is a freshman at a local Catholic high school. So this week, Emily's class went
to "
Step Up Day" at this high school and on this particular day, Meaghan was saying the morning
announcements and the daily prayer and then after the prayer just started talking about Emily over the
PA throughout the entire school!!!  When Meaghan was done with the announcements
and talking about Emily, she just said Amen.  Emily's best friend Niki was there and said Meaghan
was just saying things like "I don't know why you died" and that she (Meaghan) would have died in her
place and that she missed her...Niki cannot remember exactly everything Meaghan said because she
was so surprised to hear someone talking about Emily over the PA....

What a coincidence that Meaghan was from Noonan, that she was saying the announcements that
day  and that Emily's classmates from Noonan were at Meaghan's school that day as she spoke of
Emily being gone and missing her.

(As Emily's mother, hearing this story warms my heart soooooo much.  Emily is not forgotten,
even 4 years after her passing. It means so much to me that Meghan shared Emily with her school and
also had the strength and courage to share her pain.)